After spending a few weeks thinking about all of this I still haven't really decided either way...but I did happen to find this quote randomly and decided it would be my mantra from here on out:
Anyone else out there have issues with holding MAJOR grudges besides me? I'm slowly trying to work on it but it's so hard. I love my family so much that once someone messes with them (as is frequent in the coaching profession) I have issues not holding that against them for a long time (aka forever). Hubby is a good example in not holding grudges and I'm trying really hard to let go and move on...focus my energy on something positive. Let's just say it's a work in progress.